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Ask A Camgirl With AleishaLewis

Our newest cam girl question was about anal sex, so naturally we turned to anal sexpert AleishaLewis for the answer. Our cam performs often specialize in one thing or another, and we’re happy to let them share their skills with you on questions about cam sex, real sex, technique, sexy myths, and more.

So we asked AleishaLewis this. What is an anal orgasm and how do you cause one in a woman? She was thrilled to answer our question!

I would pick anal over vaginal any day of the week. In fact, make that for the rest of my life! The only way I can have multiple orgasms is by anal sex. In my experience, an anal orgasm is better than a g-spot orgasm, and we KNOW those are mind blowing!

These directions are for “doggie-style.” When inserting a penis or an object in her ass, you’ll want to point in toward the naval. I find this to be one of the better positions for anal sex orgasms. Ideally, you’ll want to make contact with the other side of her vagina wall. Start slowly and work your way to a faster pace. If you’re worried about hurting her or she wants to be in control, have her back up on you, controlling the motion and pace.

Remember, LOTS OF LUBE! Anal is not a slam it in and pump type of activity. Work in with your fingers and lube, slowly until she’s opened up enough to comfortably take you inside her. Anal sex should never ever hurt…. Ever!

What it feels like for men, because I’ve asked! Males can feel the pulsating after an anal orgasm. Though, it’s not nearly as strong as through vaginal. There is no constricting or “tightening.” As far as your anal muscle, its hard to control after you have a gaping hole. Men have also said it’s not as smooth as a vagina, it’s more ribbed. That, and it doesn’t have the same texture. Obviously the tightness of the ass is a big draw.

Lastly, if you’re going to do extended anal fucking, take small breaks to add more lube. When you put lube on a vagina, it might pick up and produce more lube, so you don’t apply as often. The anus is not self lubricating. It will always need more periodically.

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Ask A Camgirl with CuteHugeTits

Our cam performers are often sexperts, and we’ve come to appreciate asking them questions sent in by our members. CuteHugeTits is joining us today to answer some pressing questions on the mind of our members.

One common question we get from men is how to last longer in bed. Often men have trouble gaining stamina, but we specifically get questions from men who used to have incredible stamina, but are now cumming too quickly. CuteHugeTits has some great advice on that.

Have you stopped jacking off? That can increase sensitivity. Dicks (& Pussies) learn to cum by being trained. Every person has their “spot” that does it for them. Quickly. That spot can change and move around if one gets accustomed to having to orgasm from a specific stimulation. The first time a guy uses a Hitachi on his cock may be difficult to ‘get there’. After practice, it’s easy to arrive quickly. So, with that in mind… Just think about baseball!

Seriously though, if you’ve changed habits and intercourse is your only means of getting off then that is going to be your spot. Switching things up, masturbation, masturbation with climax control, cock ring (favorite) and more lube (less friction) are all things that can lengthen intercourse without much thought. Also just inserting the head can decrease the amount of cock that is stimulated. And, a woman’s g-spot is only an inch or two inside anyway, she’ll love the poking.

Which brings us to the next method, using your brain. Yes, girls, guys do think about sports sometimes during sex. Right around that time that he’s throbbing hard, slowing down and then gets just a little softer and starts picking up a little speed again. He was probably thinking about pre-season football. Focusing on something non sexual or semi complicated (your calendar for the week) will force your body to not be so in tune with the sexual input going on and you’ll stay further away from climax.

Yet, this isn’t very romantic. Of course staying in the mood is preferred rather then being off in space thinking about doing laundry. So, an appropriate option is to talk to your partner. Doesn’t have to be about stuff. It could be about what you’re doing at the moment. Sex. Talk about that. Talk about what you feel hanging on the edge of orgasm and the desire to not bust yet. That conversation will not only break tension but also get the man out of his “I’m gonna burst” head and more into the joint experience.

And from what I hear, women like communication. Just a rumor.

The last and most rewarding yet also most difficult to master is the continuous/multi/kama sutra method of maintaining. Not sure what to call it. But, you can strengthen your pelvic floor (kegal muscle) enough to stop ejaculation. That same muscle that pulsates when a guy orgasms. By flexing that (and stopping motion) at the height of an orgasm about to go on auto-pilot and holding as strong as possible it is possible to have what I call a half or mini orgasm. Some adrenaline rush is there but not the full thing. Some cum may come out but not all of it and the best part, you’re not done, still hard and still have that big orgasm coming. This is different then getting close and stopping. This is over the cliff, free falling a bit. Then grabbing the rope to stop. This strong male kegal can also be used before the edge to keep things lasting. The concentration to pump away while holding a kegal may be enough to curb the approach to the edge but it can also tire a dick out allowing it to be a little more relaxed and not want to worry about orgasm as much.

Control of these skills can allow one to keep slamming away easily fighting off orgasm without stopping. Careful though, sometimes if done for too long a dick can “go numb” and become difficult to get off cause, well, it’s been used like a club for the past hour and desensitized.